Mother Claims That The Words Cured Her Son's Autism

It is very important to say these words to your child every day, whether it is suffering from autism or not.

Psychologist Olga Valjajeva provides an easy recipe that she used in a battle with her older son’s autism.

Faced with this disorder she was ready to fight no matter what. Olga Valjajeva took the child to the doctor more often. A psychiatrist gave her a priceless gift. He told her about the practice of autism treatment in a clinic in England.

Mothers of the affected children every evening, over time, implemented a simple therapy. They were waiting for their child to fall asleep, and then, after 15 minutes, when the child entered in the active phase of sleep, were saying to them:

“I love you! I’m proud of you! I am thrilled that you’re my son! You are for me the best son in the world!”

Doctors at the clinic have compared children which mothers during sleep spoke these words, full of love, with children which no one has talked at night. The results were dramatic: the children who received the word love much faster recovered.

Olga Valjajeva says:

“At first I spoke only those words to my son. Later, I began to improvise and to add other words, full of love. Five years have passed since then, and I would still whisper at night to both of my sons. My older son no longer suffers from autism. I am sure that my nighttime therapy played a role!

There is something very important for my children and for me: the magic of maternal love is working on both sides! Wonderful feeling of closeness was created with the two of them. At night, while I hug and tell them a gentle word I feel how our mutual closeness grows and strengthens. The rest is in the past, everything that was hurting us – quarrels and mutual misunderstanding.

Later, I have read that to the child you should often say:

– If we could choose, from all of the children in the world we will choose only you!

and: – Did I tell you today that I love you a lot? I realized that for one child is very important to feel special and necessary to the parents on the way it is.

Here’s what I say: I am overjoyed that you exist.

This statement is especially helpful for children who were unwanted.

For example, if you wanted a daughter and for long you couldn’t reconcile with the fact that your son was born, it is important to speak to the child: I’m happy that you’re a boy!

What else should speak to the child: Daddy and I love you a lot, you are OUR dear son!

Here keyword is “our”. It helps the child to accept equally both parents.

During the day, if you quarreled with the child, tell him: I’m very sorry that we came into a situation to scold you!

Never say all these words mechanically: I love you! I’m proud of you!

The words help a lot when they are woven with feelings. So speak them with much heartfelt emotion.

From my child, I noticed that words played their curative role, if it sighed deeply.

It means that comes to relaxation and inner spasm disappears.

Treatment of therapy with words of love does not need to last long. Only three to five minutes filled with strong emotions. It is important that you do it every day. Do not forget to tell the child all this words, several times during the day.

Without any reason, when you pass next to, gently hug and kiss his neck. It will remember that for a lifetime.